Meditation and yoga can help to calm sexual feelings, and masturbation and arousing yourself can relieve these feelings. These feelings are perfectly normal. The person who answers above that the feelings will disappear after you talk about them to your parents is talking total rubbish. Most parents preach abstinence and may make you feel uncomfortable, guilty or bad if you raise it with them. These feelings are healthy and a part of life. Talking to a trusted friend is a great idea (your friend will have the same feelings they keep to themselves, most likely). Hopefully these feelings will never disappear. They will naturally integrate themselves into your life as you meet more people in life, share your thoughts with both other men and women during private conversations with friends, talk about sex and feelings and explore your own body by yourself and with a trusted partner.
In time you will hopefully meet someone who makes you happy, and your sexual feelings will become all about them!
Beware men contacting anyone here through posting of email addresses - for all you know they could be sexual predators.
(There was an answer here that said to 'contact me' and gave an email address - they should be disgusted with themselves - that person is trying to fulfill their own desires rather than help the questioner and their email address has been removed. Thanks, moderators). Good luck with your life and feelings.
It is a normal thought which will just pass like a rain cloud.Dont attach too much importance and be bothered Discuss the same with your parents if you trust them.Some parents are very good friends of their children.They had gone through the same experiences in their childhood.If the parent is frank they will discuss the matter threadbare and all such feelings will disappear.Else right down what you feel in a Diary and verbalise the same.Your rational mind will give you the solution.
answered Mar 27 '13 at 06:38